With the legalisation of Marriage Equality, the human right to marry in this country was focused on whom the person loved. It was a move that the Australian people publicly voted on that spoke of a modern Australia which is inclusive and fair.

While we have come a long way, the topic of diverse sexualities and gender identities can often be difficult in later life. There may be hesitancy and reluctance for older people to talk about the subject and in some instances, their own families might not be aware of their relative’s sexual orientation. The trauma carried by members of the LGBTIQA+ community can often be significant. Some may have experienced violence, isolation, and stigma throughout their lives simply because of who they are and who they love.  

Within the aged care sector, this is an area of service delivery where there is more work to be done. Everyone has a right to feel safe, supported, and able to be themselves in their own home, including in residential aged care. By building knowledge and skills in inclusive practice, we can go further in recognising and appreciating diversity in all its shapes and forms. The Silver Rainbow Project is one initiative working to improve the experiences of LGBTIQA+ people within the aged care system while also celebrating their lives and contributions. Bfriend, a program of Uniting Communities can also offer LGBTIQA+ peer support and assist with community connections for older members of South Australia.

We can all do more to ensure we provide a safe and inclusive environment for everyone – regardless of race, age, gender, sexuality, diversity, or appearance. This is the same for older people, who should feel comfortable to be who they are authentically and love as they choose. After all, as the Beatles sang, ‘all you need is love, love is all you need’.

As published in The Advertiser's Boomer lift-out on 12 December.